Never mind what I mean. There is just no need whatsoever to be hurtful giving advice."You have a lovely setup!" Does that mean the setup is well-planned, takes all elements into consideration, is attractive looking -OR- is it a sarcastic, sardonic, cynical comment? Context, inflection, tone and the receiving party's mindset all play into the 'feeling'. Most folks here are in it for the tortoises. Leave the feelings in a diary where they belong. Take all of the advice offered and 'average' it - you will be much better served that way.
Sorry, I disagree with you as per taking advice offered. Know why? Well, someone so nasty could advice me to do "A" when I'm supposed to do "B" and such a person could do so intentionally! Therefore, I've decided not to even read such alerts. Does that make things clearer?