My painted turtles are bullying each other. I've seen no sign before today, so I'm actually kind of shocked and sad it took me so long to get a reality check.
As usual, the pair didn't work out.
I'm actually not surprised at all, because with all the stories about bullying and aggression, I knew that the time would come when it was time to say goodbye to having a 'blissful, harmonious' relationship work out between two MALE turtles.
Why did I even pair them up???
I sincerely hoped and crossed my fingers that I'd be the one 'lucky' person to get away with having a pair get along 100% without an issues... what?
Oh well. I'm just disappointed, and I feel terrible for the abused turtle Magellan who I paired up with Howi to save him from another abusive turtledom before
He's okay, no bleeding or marks. I've separated them, and am already thinking about the future of these two 'buddies'.
Pairs just don't work out. No matter how much space you have, all the sight blockers, basking spots and hides in the world can't conserve a happy, joyous pair for long. Even if it takes YEARS, one will see the other... and the other won't be able to get away... and the bullying will begin.
As usual, the pair didn't work out.
I'm actually not surprised at all, because with all the stories about bullying and aggression, I knew that the time would come when it was time to say goodbye to having a 'blissful, harmonious' relationship work out between two MALE turtles.
Why did I even pair them up???
I sincerely hoped and crossed my fingers that I'd be the one 'lucky' person to get away with having a pair get along 100% without an issues... what?
Oh well. I'm just disappointed, and I feel terrible for the abused turtle Magellan who I paired up with Howi to save him from another abusive turtledom before
Pairs just don't work out. No matter how much space you have, all the sight blockers, basking spots and hides in the world can't conserve a happy, joyous pair for long. Even if it takes YEARS, one will see the other... and the other won't be able to get away... and the bullying will begin.