There are cruelties that exist in this world, one being animal abuse (intentional or otherwise). Yes, many times this is encountered with inexperienced keepers, such as children, so the solution is to inhibit a child's exploration of the world? I am certain that many reptile enthusiast are passionate because they started at such a young age. I think it would be a wonderful way to decrease the number of advocates in the reptile community. IF the child is showing a mature/profound interest in the natural science and wishes to keep an animal, it is the PARENTS' responsibility to furnish a positive learning experience while keeping the animal safe. If the parent does not want to provide outside interest opportunities to the child because its more work, maybe the parent should have thought twice before receiving that child?( Generally speaking of course, this could be sports, art, music, etc.) I received my first tortoise when I was 8. My parents had no clue what they were doing which led to pyramiding and other issues, unfortunately I learned from trial and error. Today, they still do not know very much, but my tortoises spend most of their time outdoors with a stream and deep burrows. The only thing that went wrong in my story is my parents' lack of knowledge on the subject. They saw it as just another pet.
Also, I think it is false to claim we will out live our tortoises. We would LIKE to out live them, but many times they die before then. And their lifespan is no reason to not get a tortoise. Sure its a commitment, but as Tom said, if it doesn't work out, donate it to a zoo, or find someone who IS experienced. I do not see my tortoises as friends or companions, as they could care less if I'm there. Only reason they respond to my presence is they perceive me as some "being" that brings food.
Also, I think it is false to claim we will out live our tortoises. We would LIKE to out live them, but many times they die before then. And their lifespan is no reason to not get a tortoise. Sure its a commitment, but as Tom said, if it doesn't work out, donate it to a zoo, or find someone who IS experienced. I do not see my tortoises as friends or companions, as they could care less if I'm there. Only reason they respond to my presence is they perceive me as some "being" that brings food.