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Just wanted to point out that child support isn't about him or you - it's the child's right to be supported by both parents. Ava deserves the child support from him and it really shouldn't be something to ponder whether or not you should get it - its her money for her care and will help you provide what she needs (or save it for college). If he is threatening to "make it difficult" then get the custody/support order with a restraining order in it to keep him away from you and Ava. That's a usual ploy to threaten the other parent. Don't buy into it and get the child support for Ava. I understand you want her to have her father, but you simply can't force him to change or to want her. Since his parents visit her, he will probably always have some contact with her anyway so focus on getting what Ava needs - she'll figure out who her father is and whether or not she maintains a relationship as she gets older. Best wishes to you.