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There seems to be a common thread in relationship problems: EMOTIONS that overwhelm all ability to think reasonably and rationally. People can't seem to control their emotions: LOVE, HATE, ANGER.
Here's a guy who couldn't get control of his emotions. He LOVED his ex-girlfriend. He was angry because she found someone new. He was angry when she obtained a restraining order against him. He was angry when he lost his job and he blamed HER and her new guy. His anger and hatred overwhelmed him to the point that he plotted to rape, torture, and kill. His only regret? When the time came to actually kill HER, he let his emotions (LOVE? for her) get in the way. He now says his only regret is that he killed his ex-girlfriend's new boyfriend instead of her. He now faces the death penalty unless the jury decides to spare his life.
Why does LOVE/HATE have such a strangle-hold on people that they lose the ability to think clearly, torture themselves and others emotionally, and end up doing unreasonable and irrational things that destroy themselves and others?
Here's a guy who couldn't get control of his emotions. He LOVED his ex-girlfriend. He was angry because she found someone new. He was angry when she obtained a restraining order against him. He was angry when he lost his job and he blamed HER and her new guy. His anger and hatred overwhelmed him to the point that he plotted to rape, torture, and kill. His only regret? When the time came to actually kill HER, he let his emotions (LOVE? for her) get in the way. He now says his only regret is that he killed his ex-girlfriend's new boyfriend instead of her. He now faces the death penalty unless the jury decides to spare his life.
Why does LOVE/HATE have such a strangle-hold on people that they lose the ability to think clearly, torture themselves and others emotionally, and end up doing unreasonable and irrational things that destroy themselves and others?