Sulcata-Pairs

[Tom]

And that is why I don't care for the term "bullying". Perhaps we would better serve those looking for advice by using "creates stress that is damaging". The term "bullying" is something people relate to as overt aggression and discount the advice as not applicable to their situation

Agreed. Some people seem to think that if they don't see ramming and biting that everything is perfectly fine. They don't seem to grasp that "following" is actually a high speed chase in the tortoise world.